Posted by: jlseagull | October 19, 2007

An Obituary for Mr. Invisible (So He Won’t Be)

GraveThey buried Mr. Diggs last week. I just found out today. No announcement. No fanfare. No family. It was a closed casket I think.

They found him in an abandoned building in town. There is suspicion of foul play. Maybe someone beat him up. No one knows. Or maybe they’re just not telling. I looked today in the local paper and they had no mention of him. No obituary. No article about his life and suspicious death. Nothing.

Folks like Mr. Diggs don’t make the news.

It took me awhile to warm up to him. He looked like a typical alcoholic drunk or a panhandler. But he was just Mr. Diggs. Everybody knew him. He was always around town, sitting on one bench or the other. Always ready with a smile. After awhile, I got to where I could look him right in the eye and say Hello. I acknowledged him. He never asked me for a dime. He just gave away his smile. I wish I’d talked with him more.

They don’t give folks like Mr. Diggs a big gravestone or put him in a fancy mausoleum with a statute of Jesus out front. They mark his resting place with a little marker.

A friend of mine knows where they buried him. She said she wants to go put some flowers on his grave. Hopefully we can find it. We’ll look where the grass isn’t growing yet.

I’m going to ask her if I can go with her.

To say one last good-bye,
to remember,
to make the invisible visible,
to acknowledge the life and death of a
man called
Mr. Diggs.


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  1. Here’s the lyrics from a Glen Campbell song “Try a Little Kindness” which have been running through my head. I hope they will be a guide to me in my relationships to ALL people. Sing it with me:

    If you see your brother standing by the road
    With a heavy load from the seeds he’s sowed
    And if you see your sister falling by the way
    Just stop and stay you’re going the wrong way

    You got to try a little kindness
    Yes show a little kindness
    Just shine your light for everyone to see
    And if you try a little kindness
    Then you’ll overlook the blindness
    Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

    Don’t walk around the down and out
    Lend a helping hand instead of doubt
    And the kindness that you show every day
    Will help someone along their way

    You got to try a little kindness
    Yes show a little kindness
    Just shine your light for everyone to see
    And if you try a little kindness
    Then you’ll overlook the blindness
    Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

    You got to try a little kindness
    Yes show a little kindness
    Just shine your light for everyone to see
    And if you try a little kindness
    Then you’ll overlook the blindness
    Of narrow-minded people on the narrow-minded streets

  2. Thank you for sharing. It won’t make a difference for him, but it will for you, and any who stops long enough to contemplate. Just contemplate.
    Hug, V


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